Boredom

Majority of people set goals in everything and one of the things in it is relationship too which includes settling down in a monogamous relationship. There is nothing wrong in such kind of ambitions but let me tell you this familiarity can become a big sex drive killer. After twenty years of happy life together, it's perfectly normal or I can say obvious to feel bored or uninspired by your mate. By that time, you've pretty much done it all ... and have ruled out or forgotten about anything else you haven't tried. This is not only a case with long-term relationship couples but even couples who have been dating for only a few months can get into a sexual groove: after the first flush of puppy love has worn off, many people find themselves having missionary position sex on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays - not that there's anything wrong with that schedule, but a little spontaneity never hurt anyone!

So why not try something off the track or something that you have not experienced from long time. Just get back to your sexual roots. Don’t think about what you like or don’t like just forget about everything and try to view sex as an entirely new experience. Talk to your partner about things you'd like to try in bed -- it could be that you just need to introduce something new to your sex life. Buy some sex toys and use them together. Watch a sexy video together and try to emulate the actors. Read or look through some illustrated sex guides. You might feel some initial embarrassment as you and your partner try new experiences together, but if you both keep open minds, you'll soon find yourself having the finest time of your lives.