Delayed or retrograde ejaculation

When mentioning the problems with ejaculation the first to appear is the subject of premature ejaculation, but there are others that ejaculatory disorders are as common as this and being talked about very little.

For example the so-called retrograde ejaculation, this is the difficulty or impossibility of a man to achieve orgasm in a relatively normal. The normal to ejaculate after penetration can be 2 or 4 minutes at least, does not mean that all men should ejaculate within this period because each person has a time that it recognizes as normal.

In the case of delayed or retrograde ejaculation is not to prolong the time of ejaculation to give more pleasure to the couple but the inability to reach orgasm when you want it.

One of the my friends had made this account: "I start the penetration very excited but when I think I can not ejaculate and I keep trying at times to nearly an hour, I end up retiring from exhaustion without being able to reach orgasm and that is in all occasions. "

Situations like this, apart from personal dissatisfaction, they end up causing problems in the couple because the woman does not understand what is happening and man is sexual contact spacing as each of them increasing their frustration.

These episodes, a man's inability to reach orgasm, may appear as circumstantial very short periods, for various reasons such as stress, anxiety peaks and then reversed by themselves, but when no apparent reason are prolonged in time and worsen instead of improving it is necessary to seek professional help to find the solution.

Causes of a man to reach orgasm

It is necessary to consult the doctor when you can not ejaculate or delayed too long to reach orgasm to rule out physical causes are within them include: neurological problems, diabetes, spinal cord injuries, low testosterone, increase of prolactin, alcoholism, or consumption of any medication such as an antidepressant.

Generally retarded ejaculation is based on psychological factors, which may consist of various kinds, like depression, anxiety, phobias, not be attracted to the couple, consider doing something sinful, feelings of guilt, have been discovered in an unlawful or prohibited sexual attitude, feeling some kind of grudge against partner.

If a man through masturbation gives orgasm and ejaculation in the desired time, it can be said that the problem is not physical but psychological in origin and with the psychological help it can reverse the table in no time.

Retarded ejaculation treatments

Delayed ejaculation can be treated at the medical level with the supply of hormones, caffeine or Viagra or similar maybe. When the condition is psychological in origin should seek help with a therapist, if possible both partners. The recommendation is not to start sexual contact with his mind set on achieving ejaculation but to enjoy yourself and let go, just being the slope of the problem creates a tension load which inevitably undermines its chances of reaching orgasm.