Erection problems in men are generally considered as an issue that only it is up to him and not taken into account regarding this issue affects sexuality and relationships of a couple. The influence of women in the man's erection problems is something that should be treated more in depth and the weight that it can have on both the causes and the solutions of the dysfunction.
Sometimes the lack of erection of psychological origin comes directly from situations that are created within the couple and that reversal is the women who must change attitudes on the sexual level that directly affect the cause of the problem.
When the couples begin to get established and the children many things begin to change and sometimes sexual life is increasingly moving into the background. The woman may feel overwhelmed by daily obligations that take up all your time and sex becomes a chore that has to comply and not a moment of intimacy and pleasure with their partner.
When sexual relations between partners become sporadic and also gives them binding force, it is difficult to imagine what they are unpleasant for both. A man who does not feel loved, desired or valued by their partner eventually begin to lose their self-esteem, feeling failed and may over time begin to have problems with erection.
When the woman shows disgust or indifference to sex when the man feels diminished, unable to attract and satisfy your partner, may even feel guilty about enjoying a relationship at the expense of the suffering of his wife, which spacing minded contacts and to suppress the desire. Sex unsatisfactory in which there are no hugs, kisses, caresses and foreplay and only consist of a mere genital contact quickly to fulfill a nasty, can lead to premature ejaculation or lack of erection.
There are men who suffer from severe shortcomings by being forced to use the technique to ejaculate outside the vagina because their partners are scared to new pregnancy. Knowing that sexual contact rather than being pleasant and enjoyable it becomes forced and traumatic end conspiring against the erection. When the couple is well communicated these problems fail to emerge but in many cases quite incredibly couples do not talk about sex among themselves.
The woman explains to the man who loves and wants but is so tired she did not have the energy to feel sexy and the man expresses his frustration at the unsatisfactory sexual contacts, leading to far from solved problems are acute, especially after 40 or 45 years old in which a man may begin with episodes of lack of erection.
In the same way that women's attitudes can directly affect a man's sexuality other hand can help reverse the lack of erection. Never too late to seek positive change and renew a relationship on many occasions when women make changes for her and her partner sexually stimulating situations lack of erection is reversed as if by magic.
These changes may be to put more care in grooming to look and feel seductive, flirting with your partner and make him feel loved and desired. I always thought, wrongly, that women who need to feel desired, the man and feels happy when the woman who is beside you show your interest. Women must not be passive but instead must find a way to sexually stimulate the man, introducing changes in routine, surprising some detail that he does not expect, or proposing to experience something new.
When a woman wants and proposes it has a very positive influence in solving the problems of lack of erection.
